Life is complex.

Each one of us must make his own path through life. There are no self-help
manuals, no formulas, no easy answers. The right road for one is the wrong road
for another…The journey of life is not paved in gold; it is not brightly
lit, and it has no road signs. It is a rocky path through the wilderness

But it is our only life and it is your choice if you enjoy it and live it, or if you choose to be miserable and saty victimn