This Week’s Food For Thought – Transform Negativity this New Year
As we all prepare to enter the New Year 2014, Many people make New Year’s resolutions. Meaning to start the New Year with fresh energy and ideas etc, to bring new energy and things to their lives and to be more positive and set and achieve goals and dreams. New Year, New energy!
The energies of life though come to meet us at every moment. Most come from other people who, are either in the same room, near us or on the flickering, technicolour screens and tablets and smart phones with which we now share most of our lives and homes.
The vast majority of these energies are not positive. So how do we handle ‘The Negatives’, whether it’s someone’s attitude, their hurtful gestures or our daily dose of world violence and mayhem on the flickering screens and the media onslaughts. The world seems so full of negativity and the TV and reporters and journalists seem to only dwell on it and fill our homes and lives with it, deciding that, that is what we all want to hear and see and negativity sells airspace and time. If no one listens or watches they will one day have to change their ways and maybe feed the positive instead.
First, do not absorb it, don’t be an emotional sponge. Switch the flickering screens off! Avoid where possible people you know will upset you, or are angry, negative, bitter or even hate filled people.
When people are negative or hateful to you, do not reflect it back. Otherwise you begin a cycle of emotional exchanges which may last a long time and grow the negativity on all levels.
Do the one thing which marks us as intelligent human beings – transform it!
Even if the scene is a disaster there is some benefit somewhere in it. Out of chaos always comes good.
If you are watching two people’s beliefs or opinions slug it out to the edge of violence, don’t take sides.
Instead if possible offer a solution then stand well back. Do not get involved on who is right and who is wrong, don’t grow the anger.
If the person hates you, accept their state of being, that’s their choice, just return to a place of peace and love, send them love back
In time, with patience, it will illuminate their darkness.
Start the New Year, in love..be the love and do not grow or feed the negativity around you. Peace will come but it starts within, and these little steps all help as their ripples spread.
Happy New Year to you all, may it be a year of peace and calm love and happiness.