The gap between what we say and what we do, between what we promise and what we deliver, is like a drain in the road. The drain is where water escapes, just as our power will seep away if there is a difference between our words and our actions.
Ask yourself every day, if your thoughts, words and actions were aligned?
If not, change what you need to change until all is aligned.
If you are not sure, you can ask someone you trust or who you know will give you truthful feedback in what they saw in you too.
Feedback is the fuel for positive change as long as you are prepared to listen and take it on board.